Paula Nahoum:When to Say No to Fear

When to Say No to Fear Habeeb Akande said, “Fear of failure prevents you from realizing your dreams of success.” Four years ago, when I was in grade nine, I was on the edge to transfer from the school to the high school. This edge was the official exam that I had to pass. At the beginning, my classmates and I had a long period – about a month - to study and get prepared for this exam. Actually, I spent that whole month studying and revising. However, I felt it passed quickly as a wink. Moreover, I was thoroughly ready to the exam, but I feared of failure and defeat. I had never been more reluctant in my life at that moment. When I came into the hall, my heart started beating fast and I felt anxious. I was completely lost because it was the first time that I had such exam. When the supervisor put the papers in front of me, the fear on my face was noticeable and remarkable. I wasn’t able to write my name: my hands were shaking. In addition, the hall was crowded and everybody was wary and cautious. After a short time, when all the other students began writing, I felt relaxed and I remembered all the information that I needed. After the first exam ended, I knew that this fear was prevalent for all students and it wasn’t only my case. When I forgot my fear, I was able to focus and answer the majority of questions. At the end, I know after this experience that fear can lead you to failure. If I didn’t overcome my trepidation, I wouldn’t successes and pass the exam. I advise every person to not let fear dominate his personality because it has a lot of negative effects.